唤起爱
At dinner time, I arrive home only to be surprised with a beautiful meal, hugs, and kisses, and I feel absorbed in feelings of love, arousal, and relief- we are O.K. after all.───到了晚餐时间，我回到家，没想到竟有丰盛的晚餐，热情的拥抱和亲吻等着我，这会我又觉得充满了爱的信念，我们真的很好。
What we try to do is condition this core value experience to occur with the arousal itself," Stosny says. "as soon as you start to get angry, you think about how you love this person."───我们想做的就是让人们自觉意识到他们的核心价值体验，”Stosny说道，“当你准备发怒时，你应该先想想你多么爱这个人。”
arousable───可被唤醒的
frontal lobe───大脑额叶
real love───真爱
familial love───亲情
frontal lobes───额叶；大脑前庭
parietal lobe───[解剖]顶叶；顶骨叶
absolutely love───绝对的爱